That sounds contradictory, maybe it is. Be willing to trust...WANT to trust, but verify that your trust is not misplaced. Basically...snoop. BUT, every time you DON'T find something doesn't mean you should look harder, in fact everytime you DON'T find something, it means you look less.
Wow, Jack. That is the first time that I've seen someone on here suggest snooping. I'm not sure how I feel about that. I have been so good about not snooping over these last few months.