thought I'd put my 2 cents in...how long was your H gone? Did you go dark? Did H still interact with your kids? Just curious...
Hi Treese. H moved out August '07, but stayed very involved with the kids. For example, on the 1-2 days a week when I have to go into work early, he would come over and get the kids ready for school, just like he did when he was living here. At the beginning, he spent more time away from us but as time went on, he spent more and more time here. I never went dark, but I refrained from calling him unless I really had to. I tried my hardest to give him the space that he said he needed.
I think my old posts are still here, if you want to read them.
