Ogre, I think, would fall in to the category of 'girl who wants money'. Contrary to what my friends think, I don't think she's necessarily a true gold-digger - rather a girl that grew up very poorly (and obviously with no morals) and had to resort to degrading jobs to earn a living. A girl who will leech on to anyone who can provide her with a better life. Just a guess.
H has been really nice and very helpful financially. Even offering to pay for things that I feel like I should be paying for. He's been much more open when talking to me to, rather than being secretive and hiding things from me (whereabouts, bank account, travel plans, to name a few).
I have no idea what it all means, if anything at all. But I am enjoying the civility and the ability to recognize a little of the old H (or is it hopefully the new and improved H?).
Oh - H brought up the issue of getting some of his things that he needed for a trip. Asked me to bring them to him, to which I replied "Why don't you come get them? You have an entire closet there still." But then I realized how cold and un-fuzzy that sounded, even if I said it casually. So I offered to bring it over for him and did. He seemed to appreciate it.
Just speculating, but things don't seem to be going well for H and ogre, seeing as how he's out drinking almost every single night without her. Although I don't know for certain that she isn't there. My guess is no, since H enjoys going out alone and meeting up with his guy friends.
