How about we let the moderators do the moderating (it is their job, after all!)?

If you disagree with MMB, post it! I disagree TOTALLY with EITHER spouse having an affair, no matter who did it first. I think it is wrong, period. MMB knows people here may disagree with her, she is a big girl, she posts anyway. So no one really needs to defend her honor on that one.....

Likewise if some choose to support her actions, that is their opinion. If you have a different one post yours.

I just think it detracts from the value of the board to have so much time spent pointing fingers at each other, quoting "who said what to who and when", etc.

Just give your advice to MMB or whoever else you read. Let other people give theirs. MMB and others on the board can take the advice or not, it is up to them.

It is getting hard to follow this thread and some others b/c they are so frequently interrupted by posters challenging each other's words. How is that helping MMB or anybody else?


Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17