That sounds contradictory, maybe it is. Be willing to trust...WANT to trust, but verify that your trust is not misplaced. Basically...snoop. BUT, every time you DON'T find something doesn't mean you should look harder, in fact everytime you DON'T find something, it means you look less.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
