Well, as I am also getting the "what would happen ifs" I am hoping I can steal some advice from someone further along in the process.

But in the meanwhile, I'll just pass along what I have been trying to do - talk honestly when my H wants to discuss things, be supportive and validating of him, reassure him the door is open, keep my expectations low, hope for the best, and always keep the worst in the back of my mind but don't let the fear control me.

Time will tell. \:\) At this point, I think we can handle anything!

Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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