The big box at the bottom of the page is misleading.
The big box says save your marriage
To which I responded
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This is very simple, Forest. If you don't believe in DBing, then leave.
This was not an order. But as running pointed out, if you do not believe in something why would you be around. Of course, Forest chose to act like a petualant child and said (and this is my paraphrase), "I am taking my ball and going home." Your reactions were predictable, i.e. don't go Forest. And I have been around here long enough to know when people say I am going, they never do. 99% of the time it is to get people to say, oh please don't go. As I said, when I leave a place, I just leave.
Now, the name of this site is Divorce Busting. There are books, Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy, that this site supports. Supposedly, you folks came her because you read one or both of the books. The site is here to back up the books. It is a program designed to give you the best chance to save your marriage based on the experience of a trained professional and her practice. Of course there are no guarantees. However, it is DB. And if you are coming here for help and advise, you better be ready to hear the DB answer. And if DBing is not for you, then find a spot which will support you. Seriously, when you have a MAC, you don't go to a Winfdows class to learn the MAC operating system. It is the same here.
Now someone said that this is a public forum and anyone can come here. True to a certain extent. The name on the website is Divorce Bustuing. MWD pays for the servers and she (and her agents) can decide whether or not someone is welcome. And in my days, I have seen a number of people tossed because they knew better. For my money, I will follow MWD.
Now, MMB, what is it you seek from Divorce Busting? If it is validation for your affair, I am sorry, you will not get it here. And yes, many of us will question your judgment. DB does not support affairs as sg said last night and she said why. If you want to get with the program, I know the mods will do everything in their power to help you as will I. It is your choice. If you think your way is better, then find a program or support group that will support your choice.
