You are such a tower of strength on these boards for others. Its also good that your H is relaxed about you being on the PC, but perhaps you already discussed all that on another thread and I missed it.
I think some men see it as a weakness when they are ill and dont want to make a "fuss" and dont want others to make a fuss either as this only highlights their predicament. My BF was certainly like that. Even now he has depression he doesnt like to mention it!
Ali x ______________ Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years IDLYA: 2 Nov 07 Own flat: 26 Jan 08 Depression confirmed: 4 Mar backing off?
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
