Hello Mr. MLC part quatro...

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This is a quick reply and not to any specific person.

First off-the person who said no wonder your husband left was not me. If I believe correctly, it was a MAN. I believe the "women" as you (MMB) quoted have been respectful. Don't confuse the situation.

Everything I have said I stand by and it was said respecfully. If you can't handle respectful opinions, that is not my problem.

What's frustrating is that a person you all so "value" has turned another individuals thread into a "me" thread. Look at ME..... I am leaving. I went back and read through and not a single soul here said for him to "leave". FG is a big boy. Typically, from what I have found from internet boards is that a person who does the "GBCF" post (Good bye cruel forum) never leaves. It's an attention grabber and it's childish. This is a public forum and as I have cotinually stated ANY ONE should be able to post their opinion. Keep the thread on topic if you wanting to help. If you want to help, keep the thread on topic and don't lock it out with drama crap. Start a new GBCF post if you want to leave.

Support comes in all fashion. Just because you don't hear what you want to hear does not mean it's not support. If you want a cheerleading squad, great- I am sure you have a few supporters for that, but if you want help- then you are going to hear things you don't want to hear. I have NOT said you are a bad person. I have said and will stand by that your actions are bad.

To the poster that feels it's disrespectful to stay single for 2 years after divorce/seperation-it's not. Just because you have not heard it personally yourself, does not make it disrespectful. MOST Professional therapist will tell you this. Check out Dr. Laura's site. She is a firm believer in allowing 2 years to heal.

To MMB- I must have missed where you were called a whore. You meantion it in your post. I tried to find specifics on it. I only committed on the safe-sex. If you are having sex with mulitple partners (which you are) I feel it's important to let all parties know openly/honestly that you are. That's not disrespectful to say that NOR does it imply I am calling you a whore.