Qwill71, W has no clue about recording. Just tried this out 3 days ago with results. Got nothing yesterday as the batt ran out on recorder. I was considering posting an MP3 of their call, but that doesn't seem smart. I dunno. My thinking about telling the OM S is that may help stop it. If she is aware and knows her H is doing this, then it may help the overall sitc. Then again for all I know this could be the last straw for them & he could be free to really be with my W! I think what is bothering me most is that she lied to my face that nothing is going on. I know it's the nature of the beast, but it still sucks. I had a dream last night I has brass knuckles and beat the living S*** out of him and then dragged him to his house and proped him up on his porch w/note to his wife. First of all I don't own brass knuckles, never been in a fight, or know where they live. Second, it was a dream, so don't any of you worry, that is not my style. Kind of wish it was, but what would come of that? Jail time! Not worth it! Was a nice dream tho. I know I need to let it go and just deal with what I can change and work on, but it is so damn hard to do that right now. I have lost a bunch of weight, work is getting less attn. Well, at least the sinking feeling in my Gut was right! That has to be what I take from my spy tactics. I need to jump into working on Me, still being a good dad, & work. The rest will, god willing, fall into place.
Last edited by Doingmypart; 04/17/0803:28 PM.
ME 33 W 37 Together 8 M: 5+ disconnected: 5 D: 2 D: 3
