Your letter fits in precisely with James Dobson's Tough Love concept, and the first step in rescuing your marraige from an A is exactly that, according to him. The underlying psycological principles are the same as in LR DBing but he is a bit more radical. I suggest you read the book at the above link and make up your mind. For me it did not work, mainly because I could not go through with my ultimatum, and it fell flat.
Kolle
Me 43 W 42 M 1998 S16 S15 D7 D4 bomb 07/03/2007 OPA ILYBNILWY My Thread
