Can't promise a hot tub, but perhaps the one near you has one. My husband and I amused ourselves at Retrouvaille with thoughts of the couples all switching partners. Adding a hot tub could make that really dicey. But then we have a warped sense of humor. Sorry for that thought.
Sara, This made me laugh. Before our Retro weekend, I told a friend that we were going to a weekend retreat for marriage counseling. He asked if there were going to be those types of activities involved. I told my W about this and we also joked about it.
Unfortunately Joie, even if the hotel does have one, there is not much time available for hot tub antics.