Hello Mr. MLC part quatro...

[Lanzo]

I was quite upset this morning when I read FG's goodbye message on my thread in piecing, I wasn't going to post here cos it would have ended up being a long rant at those who I have perceived to have driven FG away. I saw what Kalni wrote and that prompted me to post in a more calm manner.

I want to say that I would not have made it to piecing if it wasn't for FG's unconventional style to make me stop, listen and stop asking "why me". His methods are not for everyone but it worked for me. It also works for those FG chooses to help, but only if they are prepared to listen. I listetened and it worked. MMB was listening, maybe it was working, I for one was prepared to step back and let them have a go to see if they could come up with the answer. You see they had built up a rapport and maybe both of their unconventional styles would have worked in this case. Well we may never know.

If I can go back to FG's mis interpreted quote

I don't believe DB'ing can work.

It will never work... Until people want to listen.

FG believes DB works when people listen, that's how I read it, that's how I successfully interpreted his advice.

FG : please come back some of us still need your help.

MMB : Things are tough for you at the moment but please continue to post if you feel able to.