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[theotherhalf]

I am so sorry SF,

Last I had checked on you, things were seeming to be going so well. I agree with Bworl:

"The drinking, like the OW, is a symptom of the mess that is going on inside of him. He drinks to escape responsibility that he doesn't want to have to deal with. He didn't return to the OW because of his drinking. He returned to the OW because he's still messed up inside and is not ready to do the hard work needed to heal your relationship."

And it is so frustrating and sad that our S don't see this for themselves and want to change it. And even more frustrating that there is nothing we can do to stop it or change it.

Let him go SF (listen to me easier said than done). Take care of you

(((SF)))
Love, TOH