That is great, I hope you and your son have a great golf outing tomorrow. That is a positive step that W asked you to dinner tomorrow night. I keep waiting for that one myself. I hope you have a great day, I am sure you are seeing your W is not firm on where she stands right now, keep doing what you are doing, something appears to be working for you. I just don't see a WAS that is set on ending the marriage asking their LBS to go out to eat, it just doesn't add up. If she had her mind set on the D, you would not be going out tomorrow night. JMO.
I want to believe that she is thinking that way, that she is undecided about what she wants. I'm afraid that she is doing all this so we can "just be friends" and end this.
It blows my mind that she would get a D. I mean there's no abuse, the bills are getting paid, we are having fun with our D. I know I have not been a great husband to her but using common sense and logic it just does not make sense. Why risk your own financial ruin, your D's future, my fianacial ruin?? She sees I'm changing but is not willing to change herself.
She's just so pissed, hurt and can't get through her anger. I'm afraid when I answer the D papers that our sitch will get worse. I will have to answer them next week. The 30 day clock is ticking.
What do I do. have a heart to heart with her about our sitch. Not talk about our R and just let it play out and see what happens?? make a last ditch plea? very confusing.
