Many thanks GFI, love that response.

The not snooping is tough and I know what you say is right. I am dertimed to stay on track with that one.

I'll look up your post to get some perspective and respond to your sitch. I do scan around but so many posts it's hard to read let alone respond to all when own head is shot.

It's difficult to living at home to find the time to get on here. I am now at work, but obvoiously have to be a little careful A) of time spent and B) I don't want people knwoing my business.

Anyway, thanks again for your responses, I'll re read them tonight and digest fully.

Any other responses comment welcome from others.

I can do this, I can do this !!!