My W was always the black sheep in her family, and much of her life she was in rebellion against her parents. It still has an effect (I believe) on the way she raises our kids. And she was sexually abused (fortunately not raped) by a friend of the family. At one stage I thought that could have a significant influence on our sitch and asked three different C's to look into it without any result. W just shrugged and said it had nothing to do with the current sitch. But DB doesn't seem to need to work through past problems, so I am not concerned about that anymore.
The more I think about it the more I am convinced that this is some sort of MLC. (see my post above) One of the things that makes me think that is the fact that she now claims she NEVER loved me, and only married me because I reached second base with her. This is such an obvious lie, but it fits in with what DR says about MLC: The person rewrites history completely in her own mind.
Sandi You are probably right, but the only times I seem to get positive response from W is when I compliment her. I will be very careful.
Thanx for posting!
Kolle
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