Well, a 3 is better than a 2! I feel for you. My wife actually said goodnight (she is in a different bedroom) - that was one of my short term DB goals... If you haven't done all the exercises in the book, I would recommend. I have read three times now, finally have a plan on paper.
Sounds like there are a lot of us in the Bay Area!
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09