Thank ypu Qwill, you are right, this evening when I saw her she was very cold, I apologized for snapping yesterday night, and I asked to be patient. I said that she has all the right to try to move on, but although I'm fine with the split (big lie here), for me is too early to be the one that "helps her" to find the time to see OM. She can ask for this kind of help to somebody else. Maybe one day I am going to help her with this, but not now.
She didn't replay, but I think she wanted to, anyway she thanked me for the apology and she stopped being cold. We chatted a bit and then I said I was busy (it was actually true)and I left. Vote for the day:3