Hello Mr. MLC part quatro...

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Maybe it's just my opinion, but if you don't believe in DBing, then maybe this isn't the right forum for you. Applying principles that don't belong or remotely involve the premise of the book/foundation of the site- well- find a spot that will fit.

I don't think IMP's position is that he should leave. He clearly said that if FG doesn't believe in DBing, maybe he shouldn't be posting. It's not a "I don't think you should leave".... I think it's if you don't believe in the principles/foundation of DB'ing than why are you here sort of thing. As least that is how I took it. AND I agree. If you aren't here to repair your marriage- than why be here.

I am hoping my marriage will continue down the path it is, however if it doesn't... I know that the book has given me personally a foundation to help my sanity if Husband does change his mind. I don't recall having an affair being part of the foundation nor being part of DBing... it addresses it, but it's for those that had a spouse commit adultery on them.