I have a similar post going as well. A month ago, bomb dropped, few days later, found out about OM. Like you Erik, I am having all sorts of troubles with my W not ending the A - I want to snoop, did for a while, told her about it and now don't anymore. I put a post up today wondering if I should contact the other S and let them know they should be in counseling, but these posters are correct, this is the OM issue to deal with.
I am with you brother. Keep the faith.
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
