I agree. My MIL lost her husband of 50 years March 25th 2 years ago. She gets so upset when others ask why she is not dating yet. She is stunned that people think she should be. After 2 years, she is still in deep mourning. I don't find most widows or widowers moving from one man/woman to another 2 months/3 months after one's death. Call me crazy, but I just don't see it. And I agree- most "good" marriages don't end in divorce!
M: 39 H: 40 D: 12 S: 9 Married: 10 years Together: 11 years Dday- March 14th, 2008 Bomb-I don't love you-Easter 2008
Currently-living in same home, slowly working back towards a marriage.
