I went house hunting today with an agent. I looked at some really crappy houses. I'm disgusted at what is available in my price range. And I'm completely pissed because everything is such a step back from the house I live in. I love my house. We bought it before it was even built. And now I'm looking at houses in neighbourhoods that I shouldn't be. Makes me want to crack H over the head with a stiletto. There is one promising thing...a house just went up for sale that is on the same street as my best friends. It's almost my price range and I think it could be perfect. I'm hoping that fate has it in my favour that I can make it work. The financials won't be done for a couple weeks and I'm hoping it won't sell quickly. I think these things are better left to chance. I don't want to persue aggressively...if it doesn't work out it's not meant to be...but hopefully it will. And if it doesn't sell quickly then maybe the price will come down!
OH! Today H called me to ask if I could bring the kids to him at his Mom's today. His transmission went in his truck! $2500 to replace!! On top of the overdraft issue! Poor ba$!@rd! He was so pissed and as usualy acting like it was my fault. Like I took a stiletto to his transmission or something!
Anyway...I'm also excited because I think I've come up with a compromise on custody that will get us closer to what we both want. I really hope he goes for it because I know it's what's best for the kids.
That's it for me for now! I'm tired. J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out