Hi Ping, been reading up on your stitch. This last one sounded good 180's. Keep up the good work and no depending on her for things like cutting your hair, etc. That was a good move.
As far as an anniversary card.....that is a very sticky situation. I would find something very, very casual....which is kind of hard to do without the mushy stuff, or being "too humorous", but like another one suggested, keep in on hand, just in case she has something.
I can see you growing, so don't give up.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!