W said it was over w/OM...don't think so

[hopeful4her]

Erik, ditto on what Dave and Karen have said. I have not been on the site very long, but have gathered a lot of good advice from it reading others posts. I know that not snooping is very, very hard to do. I used to constantly look at WW's phone to see how often they talked, but I have not done it in a couple of weeks. I have no idea if they are still talking or not. I only assume that they do. They probably also meet for lunch. I can no longer care about it. It will drive you nuts. I can only care about what I do. Funny, but now I am getting calls for invitations for lunch and invited out by old friends (females). I have no intention of starting a relationship, but it is nice to be in the company of someone who is interested in listening to you for a change. Strange that this all started to happen when I decided to not give a damn about her anymore. I do still love her and still want my marriage to work. At least give a full effort to see if something is still there between us. I know it won't happen while OM is still in the picture. But maybe in Gods time. I remain faithful and hopeful. Be strong for yourself and for your kids. They are the ones that matter the most.