Thanks to you all. It's unanimous that I either need to continue with #4 or call her (#1). I can probably wait a little longer. I would like to know what in the heck she's thinking. I wish so badly that I could talk to someone who knows her and knows what's going on. But there's no one.
Bobbi Jo - Thanks for dropping in. It's good to have a new perspective. Thanks for bringing up the "does it work" thing. The thing is, nothing is working. Calling her hasn't worked, not calling her hasn't worked, sending a card hasn't worked, apologizing hasn't worked, staying away hasn't worked, etc. But, it has been awhile so maybe if I called, it might be "something different."
Does anyone have anymore ideas on "something different?"
Nik - Sorry you've been sick. Thanks for checking in.
You all have been such a great support group. I feel so much stronger than I did 2 months ago. I feel really good and life is good.
Good luck to everyone! I believe in miracles and I'm with Bobbi Jo (With God, all things are possible.)!!!