Thanks Karen & Dave! I actually got a little choked up reading both your posts. The problem I am facing is my logic and all that is good says to stop spying & just deal with me. Your words were encouraging and I am starting a new "treatment" on Monday called EMDR not sure how effective it is, but I have read some & it looks promising. The funny thing is I am not as angry at my wife as I am the OM. Mainly bcz he is also married w/kids and KNOWS she is M. So that pisses me off more. Weird huh?! So I plan to stop snooping after this weekend. I want to xref phn records w/recordings to verify it's the right dude.
ME 33 W 37 Together 8 M: 5+ disconnected: 5 D: 2 D: 3
