Please stop. I know sg and she did not miss anything.
An affair by a married person is wrong and two wrongs do not make a right. If it was a good think, how come monkey hasn't told the man with whom she is having the relationship what the story is. monkey has admitted it was not started under the best of conditions.
As for being called on crap, I can honestly say that I have been called on some of mine and it made me a better person. Obviously, you've never had anyone who cares about you enough to do so. Or perhaps, you just think you know better than everyone else, which is sure how you comport yourself on this board. Now, where is your thread? How is your marriage?