It sounds like you have made quite a 180 in yourself! I think your goals are very good. The only one I even took a few moments to think about was this one:
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I will casually(!) and HONESTLY compliment W 3 times a day
Now, I don't know her and you do........but just don't over-kill on the compliments. Yes, she wants them from strangers, but that many from you every day may come across as "smothering". I don't know, I'm just saying it might be a bit too much. We women are very complex and it make it hard for you men to know what to do.
That is the only thing I would be careful about in your goal setting is not to smother and try to still give her plenty of space. If I knew how to hack computers.....boy, would I be tempted!! (lol) So, I can imagine how hard that is for you.
Keep up the good work and keep coming back to talk to us.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!