"You know what, mmb --- you weren't being disrespected by 'Runs'. Being called on about an affair on this board is fair. It isn't the high road."
Being called out is fair. It's not the high road.
Here is where you went wrong..
"Being called on it and being 'judged' while you're still in the midst of it is a good thing."
You missed the point she did not want to be "judged". She was looking for help. She wants out and she wants the quick "fix". I don't understand how you can miss someone reaching out.
I have a question...
Are you willing to stand by your words..?
"MMB -- no ultimate good can come of the affair."
What if it gave her just enough gumption to make it work?
What if it gave her the clarity to see what she wanted?
Being called on something you do is never a good thing. That person calling you may have crap cards and you can beat them.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
