You know what, mmb --- you weren't being disrespected by 'Runs'. Being called on about an affair on this board is fair. It isn't the high road. Being called on it and being 'judged' while you're still in the midst of it is a good thing.
That's different than if you are over it, sorry....and still being called on it.
MMB -- no ultimate good can come of the affair.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001