Yes, It is good advice. I wouldnt trade the 15 years I had either. There were lots of good times for me...not really any bad memories until the separation.

I was a little angry tonight at my H....he said he would be at our sons practice tonight....he even called me again today to ask what time it was...that kinda ticked me off because I had made a point to tell him last week. I even discussed him needing to be more responsible and remembering this stuff and quit relying on me to tell him.

Well, about 2 minutes into practice he texted me and said he probably wouldnt make it and that he had just gotten out of the shower and had to eat. Ok, practice was only 2 minutes down the road....I texted him about an hour later and said if he was done eating he should come and watch our son, our son had asked where his dad was. I guess some fire flew into me. H said he was kinda busy. OK, I HATE it when he puts our kids off for something else. I was kinda nasty and some would say manipulative, but I just said sarcasticly "fine, I will tell your son you were to busy to come". I know, I should have left it alone. He texted me and told me I WAS MEAN! Ok, I just left it alone then. On our way home we saw him at the gas store down the road from home....he saw us and then texted me "i had to go to the store for smokes and a drink". I didnt bother to answer that.

UGH, no 2x4 please, I know I shouldnt have gone there, but I did. I was ticked at him. Im still kinda mad at him. Im just tired of having to be a single parent! While he does as he pleases.

Kissak

"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3
M-37 H-37
S-10, D-15
M- 1993
First bomb- 12/23/06
Came and went too MANY times!
Gone again 10-25-10