I apologize if you feel I was insulting you. I can only respond to what I do know and that is what I've read. My position of lacking respect for yourself was not meant to be an insult.
If what you are doing is working well for you. Great! I am very happy for you. Take care.
M: 39 H: 40 D: 12 S: 9 Married: 10 years Together: 11 years Dday- March 14th, 2008 Bomb-I don't love you-Easter 2008
Currently-living in same home, slowly working back towards a marriage.