Quoting charcoal:

So H says he needs to plan for when I ask him to leave. I tell H I don't want him to leave, that I want to keep working on it, and that there's been lots of progress.

H is down today, did not return the ILY on the phone.


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ah, char, I just ranted on jethro's thread about how I wish I could ask things of my h and get an honest response...then, I read of YOUR honesty with h. and how he reacts. I'm so sorry. It's very courageous of you to keep being straight with h. about such hard stuff when he responds that way.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.