Oh boy, lovemyguy. I just read through your situation and my heart really goes out to you. That ice coldness is unbearable. Wouldn't it be nice if we could somehow remove our emotions from our situations and just view our H's as a friend we care about? Why is the rejection so painful? Why can't we just let them go without feeling so hurt, angry, abandoned, rejected, disposable...? I'm thinking of trying hypnotherapy. I wonder if that would work. I'm just so tired of being in this pain and having my husband treat me with such iciness. I am wishing you the very best.

What will you and your girls be doing in LA?


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence