If they're yours to claim, then take it back, at least 2 of 'em! File an amended return. Then, email him that since you neglected to sign the proper forms, you are filing an amended return.
He can then either choose to file an amended return, too, or risk being audited when the IRS sees that between both of you, you claimed SIX kids.
This sounds mean, Althea, but I want to share this.
You are just doing right by YOU. I know you have kids, but doing this doesn't harm them, or their R with their dad. This is taxes - not fatherhood or family. And, when you stick up for yourself, it's good for you. And, good for you means healthy, happy and strong Althea, great artist, mom, friend and incredible woman...that you already are.
My friend told me, before mediation, that my xh would make it look like I was money-hungry....but to keep by my needs/desire. She said that fighting for your right to $ is the same as saying "this is what I am worth, this is my value" and taking that. You are the FULL TIME mother of your kids. You deserve the claim. You are simply taking that back in an amendment. And, Mitch just needs to be made aware of your decision so he can follow appropriately.
Hey, it's what you need to do. Much like he "needed" to get out of a M, move far away, and lead a new life.
