FIB, I hope that these recent events give you some more clarity thashould be proceeding with your divorce. I know first hand that reconciliation is hard (and sometimes not even acheivable) when both people are actually committed - but when one is behaving like your wife, all you can do now is save yourself and your children.
From following your sitch, I can tell you are a fine man, and that any woman would be truly blessed to have you in her life. You deserve to be loved in return. Please do not let this woman make false accusations and try to take away an ounce of your dignity.
I'm sorry to sound so angry, my heart hurts reading the way you are treated. You deserve so much better.
