Also, while I always have a high opinion of Dom's comments and suggestions. I am not a big fan of the idea of you putting your H on the spot by directly asking him what is more important- your M or his gaming. I see that as a lose-lose. I figure he will brush that question aside in a heartbeat and maybe even pretend he didn't even hear you ask it.
I had the thought and was wondering whether or not you And H ever get the chance to have family or a sitter watch your D's so that you would have alone time to accomplish this very necessary talk?
I am praying for you and hope you are physically, spiritually, emotionally well.
