Well, he got mad at me last Sat. He didn't think I should take d4 to a birthday party for one of her school friends because he thought she was too tired. She was at a Build-a-Bear party already, and starting to get grumpy. I told him she was fine, she's just hungry and after this party we were going to the next one. A lot more to that conv than this, but that was the jist of it. He thinks I'm making decisions on my own without listening to him... he's right. But, I'm the one raising these kids, and doing a damn good job of it. Anyways, he told me not to call or text him unless it's about the kids, or counseling. I haven't spoke to him since.
Sad thing is, I miss him only slightly. I can't wait for those books to get here, esp the verbally abusive book.
I saw a counselor last week who reveiwed my psych test, and concluded that I DO NOT have a mood disorder or personality disorder as h thinks. He did say that I need to get out of the marriage, and that he is emotionally abusive. Next week, I'm taking h to my appt for him to be told that I'm not crazy, or mentally ill. He's gonna be pissed. He's been telling me for years that something is wrong with me, and I need medications. Finally, I submitted to the tests that he wanted me to take, and now he will be told that I don't need meds, and that I'm stable. Seriously, his mom is walked on by his dad, she jumps when he says to, and I think h expected the same from me. He thinks because I fire back at him when he fires at me I need meds.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
