First of all, I'm sorry for your loss regarding your dad. I know how devastating and painful it is, and want you to know that I hurt for you, esp with everything else you've had to deal with over this past year. Thanks for being such a great caring and thoughtful woman.
As for your sitch, things sound pretty interesting of late, eh? Your H's yo-yoing has always bugged me, and my advice at this stage in the game is to stick with your plan and continue doing exactly what you've been doing that has gotten him to come back this much. It sounds like he's still a bit confused, so keep him on his toes and thinking about what his choices are going to give him in the not-too-distant future.
Great to hear an update from you, and great to see all of us "oldies" touching base!
