Hi..I am like Jethro..I don't get why the big deal..but then I have not really followed your thread.. I will say one thing to you younger "kids"!!!, years ago when I was an at home mom..I did EVERYTHING....then I worked very part itme..I still did everyting..got mad at h and kids, slammed cupboards, was angry all the time..then I went to work full time when kids in high school..I still did/do everything, and you know what it is not worth it...I do things as I can..if the dishes don't get done..oh well..I learned I could not change h to do all the things I would like. I know I am going to get yelled at , but to nag and get angry all the time is not worth it.Now I am not sure if those are issues with you and you h, but thought I would throw it in.
