nlt, I agree with new attitude. You need to get your mind off H (I know it's so difficult to do). Try and find a new hobby, get to a gym, things that will help you not think about him as much.
OW sounds like a manipulator. H is so mesmerized by her that even if they disagreed, she probably gave him an explanation that sucked him right back in. That's how many OW work. It may be a very long time before H realizes what she's really like.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
I know you are all right. I guess I'm just having a hard day. It is so pretty outside & we both always loved the spring & getting ready to plant tomatoes & just doing things like that together. I just never dreamed in a million years that he would do this to me. One time he said he wouldn't look at another woman or do anything b/c he did not want to take the chance of loosing me. I know I'm like a lot of woman but again I truly never believed he would do this or let it get this far. I thought he had better sense than this! I'm just sad & miss him so bad!!! And then of course for the OW to rub it in my face like she did, I'm so shocked. I guess I didn't realize people could be so mean.
nlt, what's happening? I hope you're feeling better today.
Did you get your massage and facial?
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
No, I haven't gotten the facial & massage yet. I've been trying to get my house back in some sort of order since he left it in such a mess. I think it's going to take a while. At least I've got the living room put back together, now for the rest of the house.
I still haven't heard from him since I left him the voice mail about OW thanking me. I really don't think he knew about it. Some friends have suggested that when I send him the check for our income tax refund that I should put a copy of that email in there. What do you all think about that?
I did get something in the mail from him today but it was only showing proof to me that he has enough life insurance on himself with me as beneficiary to pay for alimony if something were to happen to him. He didn't write anything.
I'm really tired, I guess with all the stress & everything I have just not been getting any rest. I did go buy me another bottle of that wine like my friend brought, so maybe a small glass at night will help me to rest better.
Thank you all for your support & checking in on me!
