No, I don't think she was fishing & really I didn't tell her anything that I didn't care if H knew & yes I am watching what I say to her. She has her own problems with her H & she was laughing b/c I got the house & alimony. Her H was telling my H not to give me a dime & she thought it was so funny when he called & told them I got what I did.
I tried to remain calm when I left the message on his cell phone, but I know he could tell I was mad. I hope I didn't sound too mad, but I hope it confirms to him what kind of person she really is b/c I really don't think he condoned this, he just wouldn't do it, that is not his style. Like I said I hope this is the beginning of the end of them. I sure hope so anyway!!! I did send a copy of this to my lawyer.
It was very tacky of her to do this! I hope it will make him start to open his eyes a little bit anyway.
the OW is not only a b!tch, she is also an idiot. Good for you! Don't Do anything about it, though. You already told him, now sit back and watch. Hopefully it will the first step towards the end of A. Suggested reading: "the journal to Stella"
facial and massage sound fabulous!
(((nlt)))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Thank you stella!!! I agree, I couldn't believe she did that!!!! I haven't heard a word from H. I hope he didn't know about it before I called him, I really don't think he would condone something like that, so I hope he got mad at her last night. Everyone I've talked to or told about this said the same thing & it just proves what she really is!
I did discover they are only renting a house, so they didn't buy one yet.
Sorry, I was not really serious about it, though I love the book. BTW, that's where my posting name has come from.
So, they didn't buy the house. Good news! May be your H listened to self-preservation instinct after all.
Ever since you've mentioned facial I'm thinking about one :)!
((nlt))
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
I think that is great news that they didn't buy the house too. I do believe they didn't b/c he didn't get the money out of the sell of our house. He thought he would make me sell it & split the profit but since I got the house, he didn't get any money & what cash we did split he had to pay all the attorney fees & the mediation fees.
Yes, I've got to set up a facial & massage, I need them both bad!!! While I'm at it I think I'll get a manicure & pedicure.
I sure hope we are all right & this is the beginning of the end of them. I just don't know right now.
Well still no word from H about the phone call or the email message OW left. I really don't think H would have condoned that or if she had told him she was going to do that he would have tried to stop it.
I sure hope it is the beginning of the end. I wonder if he will move back here??? What do you all think??
I sure hope it is the beginning of the end. I wonder if he will move back here??? What do you all think??
I really hope he does, but I think you need to try to stop worrying about it. Let it go. Take extra good care of yourself, enjoy your day of pampering, find a new focus. Be the better person. Hugs...
