No one is telling me to have this talk with H. It is an internal struggle I am having with myself. One day I want to give the ultimatum and the next day I don't know if I can. I guess my struggle is because I feel that I NEED to, whether I WANT to or not...otherwise I may never have the courage to if I wait until I am "ready".
Klm,
Man are you sending messages to me??? I could have posted the above. YES THIS IS ME..... The problem that I reilized today is the medication I am taking to quit smoking can alter my judgment..so now I am kind of at the waiting game agian for 7 weeks... I have given my W 369 days to decide.. Yes we have come a long way.. Yes 9 months ago she was an alian... today she is much better... until I make a move to mend then she backs offf agian.... My thoughts today..... I was thinking that W told me that if I contacted the OM "It was OVER" .... Well I was thinking of telling her it seems pretty much over anyway... If I was the OM WIfe and she knew what I know I would want her to tell me about you two.. So unless you want to commit and go to retro. then Yes it is over. The pictures will be in the mail by morning... After I call tonight....
Now I am not going to do this.. (yet)... but it's stuff like this that keeps running through my brain...Then I think of how far I have come and know that doing this will either push her to the breaking point or bring her to her kness... but once I do this there is no turning back.....
Ok Klm we will wait "one more day" LOL
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
