I would only do it if they keep 'bugging' you about it. I dug a big line in the sand because of other issues involved. Haven't talked to them since. Talk about detaching. And I've felt more detached from sitch---nice unexpected side-bonus.
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I haven't had much of a chance to show him my consistent behavior in contacting him b/c he keeps contacting me first.
that is really aggravating...it's like earlier in my sitch. I was trying to leave W alone, but had to see her like every other day. On a positive for you, he is contacting you first. Also, something to remember, just cause you say "new plan" doesn't mean he'll cooperate right away. So, it gets a mini-delayed start. Don't worry about it. You know what you want to do when you are able to implement. Meanwhile, keep positive, friendly, and I still think you are being consistent...I just think you are frustrated by the mini-baby steps.
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anything he thought I would like then suggested that I come over to hang out. I wasn't able to make it last night but plan on it today. He also emailed me today just to chat.
ummm...you seem frustrated here to me. Like you want more than more movies and email chat today...maybe I am wrong. I don't get the movie invite, but I know I get frustrated at the time it takes to just get measurable success.
I appreciate your post on my current thread. I thought I'd let you know here that in addition to
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...love isn't just a feeling but a choice...
that I get a lot of strength from something I learned several Sunday's back...Real love is loving and expecting nothing in return.
Real Love and Proverbs 3:5-6, that's what gives me all my strength. It gives me the courage to try when I have no clue. And it gives me the wisdom knowing the Lord is at the helm.
