Fixer I am no expert, thats for sure! but gosh I think your W is already starting to get a bit nervous and curious at your new 'tude!
Always liked the motto: If it dosnt work, try something else and you are!
It must be so hard to go dark while living together, never had to do that , so cant imagine how hard it would be for you. I will tell you goig dark seems to be a lifesaver for some, as it helps YOU. I know even D now, I have no contact w/ my ex and lo and behold he calls to "chat" there ya go. Human nature.
I hope it does work for you Fixer, I know you have been at this for so long. Your wife is a lucky woman for you to care so much
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
