Thanks RMG - I agree that I sometimes ask myself why would/do I even want her back after all she has done and all I have found out (I was very good at snooping)? She essentially lives with OM now. However, I keep coming back to the reasoning that this is not my W, but rather an alien.
She returned my call on Monday regarding taxes and we had a nice rather long talk (as we usually do), and I know she was sniffling during our talk. However, we also discussed the filing as well. Anyway, I continue to GAL.
Best regards,
JMC
Me: 48 Ex-W: 45 M: Nov '96, together since Oct 93 Bomb: on 10-yr anni - Nov '06 OM Separated: mid-Feb '07 Divorced mid-July '08 One daughter - 28 XW living w/OM