My H is constantly working on the outside too. He even told me "I thought when I lost weight and got in better shape I would finally be happy with myself.". Then a couple of months later after having extensive dental work done..."I thought when I got my teeth fixed I would finally be happy with myself." ...It is just constantly something. I don't see why he doesn't understand it is internal, not external. I agree with you Sara...my H is just getting uglier.
Yes five years is a very long time. I really don't get it.
