jmw,

Thank you for your response in part 2 of my series.

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On a personal note, I blasted several folks in my family for bringing it up...You should love her more than you love me.


Good for you. I wish my H would stand up for me like this. His sister both when we first got engaged and now has had some not so nice words to say about me. She is now the expert on me and my M even though she has only seen me twice in the past 8 yrs.

I should take a stance with my family. Despite all my H has done I hurt him very badly and that hurt and anger can make a sane person act crazy. I want to stand up for the man I know he is and the man my family adores.

My plan created by my DB coach hasn't been working quite as I planned, but not in a bad way. I haven't had much of a chance to show him my consistent behavior in contacting him b/c he keeps contacting me first. He goes and gets new movies every Tuesday and yesterday called to ask if I wanted to see anything. I didn't have any suggestions so he said he would pick me up anything he thought I would like then suggested that I come over to hang out. I wasn't able to make it last night but plan on it today. He also emailed me today just to chat.

On another topic he is going to sin city this weekend for a reunion of old navy buddies. PMA PMA PMA and prayer, lots of it. Luckily he will only get to spend Friday night and Saturday there, but really I am not to worried.

Last edited by HOPEFULinCALI; 04/16/08 07:34 PM.

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Role Reversal(original)
WAW now LBS part I & II
WAW now LBS part III(current)
T: 9 yrs
M: 8 yrs
WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07
LBS: Sep 07-pres.