This is the way I see (you know that my take on it is right). There is no 1 size fits all, but I have to tell you that women are much needier when it comes to finding a man after they've been a LBS. I think that women start looking and even start with the online dating much sooner than men in order to try to cover the wound. On the other hand, I believe that when guys meet someone they fall harder.
Oh come on. We see this everyday on the board.
DISCLAIMER:I'm not saying that this is an absolute but in lots of cases it does seem to ring true.